177's can get light on the tongue with a full water tank in the rear. I suggest that you fill the tank and load the trailer and tow vehicle with cargo, water, and people as you want to and weigh it at a public scale. You can run through the scale with the trailer (weight distribution hitch NOT tensioned if you have one), adding one of your three axles at a time. Then drop the trailer and do the same thing with the tow vehicle alone. Leave the wdh on the TV. Subtract the combined weight of the tow vehicle axles with and without the trailer to get the tongue weight. The trailer weight is the total weight or the rig less the tow vehicle.
If your tongue weight is less than 10%, or 11% if your cautious like I am, of the trailer weight then shift some gear forward in the trailer. When you get to that point one of us can explain how to know when you've moved enough stuff to get your tongue weight where you want it without having to weigh again.
The individual axle weights can also be used to check against your TV and trailer max axle load limits which are on the drivers door jamb and on the front driver's side of the trailer. That and checking the max combined gross vehicle weight against the total rig weight and trailer actual against max weight will tell you whether everything is within your various TV and trailer load specs.