Most of the boondocking I have done, and other campers I have boondocked with, involved the use of a blueboy to cart off the waste to an appropriate dump receptacle. Most often, the blueboys will not hold the full amount of both holding tanks of whatever size is on a particular trailer. In fact, my blueboy is only 11 gallons capacity.
So yeah, if I did it wrong, (as if!) I could end up with a full black tank and an empty or nearly empty grey tank. As Tar says, I'd have to really work at it. Other campers with no blueboy might dispose of grey water by local draining, OR, produce very little grey water, but the black tank is not being emptied.
Some boondockers with a failed fresh water pump (or leaky plumbing) have used portable jugs to pour water into the commode during use. You know...'stuff' happens.
But in the general RVing public, things have been known to be done incorrectly...all one has to do is watch youtube to see people doing dumb things and then monetizing the video....so maybe it's not THAT dumb if they cry all the way to the bank...