If you flip the converter 120v breaker off, as posted above, the converter charge circuit will be disabled, and the trailer's 12v systems will be running from the trailer batteries ONLY, and the Apex will be powering the 120v outlets and systems. So, be sure to flip the Microwave and the A/C and the Water Heater breakers to OFF. There will still be 'shore power' to the outlets. Be sure the fridge is set for propane.
If the camper batteries really are fully charged, the converter (if switched on) will taper back to around 100 watts or less in standby. But, several 12v items will still pull small amounts of current...so with everything combined, the standby draw can be past 100 watts, but it should not be 400 watts if the battery is fully charged.
If the cooling fan on the WFCO converter is running, the batteries are probably being charged...(or you are powering some heavy loads)
When that fan stops running, the batteries are probably charged or very close to being charged, and the wattage being pulled from shore power (or your Apex) should drop to below 100 watts, assuming all items that can be turned off, are turned off.
BTW, if you look in the WFCO website it states that you can run the 12v side of it to power the RV with no battery connected and it will not damage anything. You would need to install a battery disconnect switch on the positive side, OR disconnect the battery terminal, on the negative side.
Click on 'Does the converter need a battery to operate?'